Fear

Ever since we were kids our parents would tell us "you could be whatever you want to be", some of us would say "I want to be a singer, actor, even be the president of United States of America". Over the years we've lost the innocence, the cute smiles, even the sparkle of our eyes. We forget our dream in life. We become afraid of taking charge in our life, being spontaneous in life, even take risk. Teenage girls are afraid of telling someone I love you or being dump one day. Teenage boys are afraid of being a pussy guy or have your girlfriend cheating on you. Our parents and humanity teach us to be afraid in life. It makes us cowards. Now I may sound like I'm telling you to jump off a cliff if you're afraid of heights. I'm just saying take a chance in life. If you're single and really like a girl or boy just tell him. If you don't want to be with a person tell them but be specific enough and gentle. Fear becomes you if you let it in.

Second Chances

Second chances can be risky. When you love someone so much, you sometimes forgive them for all their mistakes. When we were young our mothers, teachers, aunts, even God gives us second chances. We sometimes take it for granted. We don't realize the mistake we've made until it's just too late. You live only one life. In this lifetime there are people who love us incredibly, they are the people who we should hold on to until we die. There are other people who are just plain dumb. They don't realize what kind of girl or guy you are. They don't know that you complete them in one form until they date or finally see you're meant to be with that person. When they finally realize we either are in a relationship or moved on in our life. I know I might sound like a old person or a girl that seen too many movies and is desperate for love, but it's true. We all are looking for someone that's compatible with us. A person who doesn't care at how you look without makeup in the morning, who laughs at your stupidity, who looks at you like the first time you met each other. Maybe that person is your best friend or someone that you've been with. If you broke up with the greatest person you have ever been with hope to God she or he wants you back. If that person made you laugh, comfortable, and sees you like the man or woman you are let me tell you you were stupid to let her or him go. But if you are still with that person hold on to them and talk about your relationship and give your love a second chance. Hey it's valentine's day. You might never know what Cupid has for you tonight.

All We Need Is Friends...

        Sometimes a girl just needs her best friends to back you up. When you just broke up with the man you thought was the one, you will always need your friends to be there. Sure they can be very annoying when they say"oh god just get over it" and sometimes don't understand what you're going through most of the time. But in reality their your voice of reason. They tell you things that you have been trying to tell youself for the past week or so. For instance, when I broke up with the guy who I truly loved and spent weeks crying for him. When I went back to school, they told me things I never imagine they would say. It was hard to get pass that phase of my life. If I didn't have them, I truly don't know what I would do without them. Now if you're still with your man and talk about him none stop. Your friends will be happy for you even though they know he might not be the right guy for you. Friends are a part of who you are cause you can relate to them in each different ways. My friend Lisa loves to shop and she can make your ordinary uniform to a fashion statement. Jessica the type of friend you can take her to a car show just to make fun of Americans (sorry). Lenora the mom type and a great listener. Denie the one who just stares at you and speak her mind without worrying what you said. In my opinion these are the type of friends you might need or who knows probably another type. They are there for you when you need them just like you're there when they need you.